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Friday, January 13, 2017

Decisions, Decisions... Treatment Changes Scare Me!

Friday 1.13.17

Yep, it's Friday the 13th... perfect day to already break my "on the 7's" theme posting, as I have news, labs, numbers, results and big decisions to make as a result of my oncology appointment yesterday 1.12.17

Yesterday, Thursday January 12, 2017 was really my Friday the 13th! It was pouring rain here in CA, when I left for my afternoon Oncology appointment. Driving in the rain doesn't bother me a bit, I rather enjoy it. It's all the other crazies out there! That scares me. I'm cautious and smart, and drive an older model SUV, so I feel quite safe... UNTIL MY DRIVER'S SIDE WINDSHIELD-WIPER DECIDED TO BREAK, SNAP BACKWARDS INTO THE GLASS WINDSHIELD, HITTING METAL ON GLASS, FLOPPING AROUND, AS THE RAIN POURED CATS, DOGS AND HUGE RAIN DROPS! Scared me so much! The wiper whipped around, metal hitting the glass windshield, until I got my senses about me to turn the wipers off! I was driving over an overpass and couldn't pull over, and by the time I could, traffic was moving so fast and recklessly, I didn't want to take the chance pulling over, and not being able to pull back into traffic. Besides, what the heck would I do anyway. The wiper was broken, backwards, metal on glass, pouring rain, and I had an oncology appointment to get to. So I continued to drive in the blinding rain, without wipers. Scared the shizzz out of me, but I stayed in the slow lane, shaking my head, and thinking, what the heck life... what the heck are you doing to me! I'm done with challenges, tests and "excitement". SERIOUSLY DONE! And this was before my appointment and the unsettling news to come...

This could have been my windshield, 
had I not turned the wipers off when I did!

So I made it to my appointment alive, and my Dr brings up my labs with a worried look, and let's me know she is very concerned with the upward climb of my numbers. Bottom line: Myeloma is winning over Pomalyst. Pom is barely making a cellular dent... Time to change the treatment plan AGAIN. Ugh!! Nooooooo!!! C'mon Pom, please work! We got off to a rocky start in Nov and Dec with all my crazy allergies, head cold illness and crazy pinched nerves back issue. Maybe one more month will make a difference I plead. I am less and less brave about this cancer thing every year, every change in treatment. I am so fearful of new and awful side effects. I've got the crash cycle down, know fatigue all too well, GI stuff in "control", neuropathy not too bad, etc... I'm just starting to be friends with Pom... perhaps that's the problem: If chemo DOESN'T cause dramatic side effects, maybe it's not working?... see Pom and Dex steroids are giving me the opposite problem Revlimid did... going from unpredictable volcanic diarrhea with Rev, to both diarrhea and being corked up with Kyprolis, and now Pom and Dex fully cork me up. Maybe it's all the myeloma cells corking me up? LOL, sorry to the non-patients reading this. Us cancer patients talk about our GI issues and body side effects like "normal" people talk about their social plans!  

My Dr wants to stop Pom and start Darzalex and Velcade, along with good ol Dex steroids. As in start next week! Darzalex SCARES ME! I have read a lot about it, from Research sites to Pharma sites to Patient sites. The initial infusion of Darzalex SCARES me! Google it, read patient blogs and infusion insanity! (Besides, isn't it targeted to IgG myeloma, and I'm IgA?) Remember I skipped right past Velcade for Kyprolis, Nov 2015, because of all the reports of terrible Neuropathy with Velcade. Ugh! I hate myeloma, and hate that I am controlled by myeloma and what it is doing to me and that I have to take meds or die!

So after discussing my labs, and various options for treatment and meds, I gave in, and said "yes, ok Dr, you're the expert, you know best, I will try this new regimen..."  I drove home teary, sad, mad, frustrated, and incredulous, that this is what my "life" has come to. I'm tired and worn down from 7 years of this battle. I want to feel good. I want to play. I want to be "normal". I want to make "superficial" plans like everyone else. I want to work, play, go places, other than appointments related to myeloma. I just want to live an uncomplicated life... 

Fortunately, it wasn't raining much driving home. Just misty, so I did ok without functional windshield wipers. Broken wipers. So symbolic. Rain streaking across my windshield. Tears slipping from my eyes. A broken, upside down wiper. Me, broken, my life upside down... 

 Ok, so Beta2 went down 10 points ^

 These don't look too awful ^

Ok, ok, yes... my IgA went up 10 points ^

Ugh, M Protein up too ^

My lovely compromised immune system

And yes, this one says it all: 

I was grateful to return home safely, but not a happy camper psychologically. Still "shell shocked" Pomalyst wasn't killing off myeloma cells as I had "expected", stunned that my labs weren't better with plummeting myeloma stats, and overall just sad about the status of my life. So what did I do to "rebel" and feel better? Put on a coat, rubber boots and went out to my "happy place", the horse arena, and scooped the horse poop in the pouring rain. Quite fitting, don't you think? Shoveling poop, in so many ways, in my life...

 Pouring rain here.
These pictures don't tell the downpour story!

 Happy horsies, clueless to my situation

 And it cleared a bit,
then poured some more

I sloshed around and processed my situation
Poop here, poop there, poop everywhere in my life

Here's what I wrote to my Dr late last night:

Hi Dr P,
I've been doing a lot of thinking and reading, and I am "scared" to start Darzalex and Velcade together. I was looking over my recent myeloma stats and saw my Beta2 went down a whole point, the Beta Globulin went down a bit too. The IgA only went up 10 points and the M Protein .27
I do realize my upward trend, but if you are ok with it, I would like to consider the following for this next treatment cycle:
1- continue with Dex and Pomalyst for one more month, but at full dose, 4mg
2- or try Dex and Velcade
3- or try Dex, Pom and Velcade together
4- or try Darzalex singularly

Last option, I don't think I am ready for is the combo of Darzalex and Velcade, as side effects from 2 new meds may be overwhelming for me.
So sorry to be such a pain. Please let me know your thoughts. 

She's gone for the weekend, as her RN called me back... so we'll see what she says early next week. I was also informed that I was already scheduled for the chemo lab for Thursday, Jan 19... ummm NO!!!

Ok Myeloma Patients Out There... Help Me Out... Your Opinions Please!

Today, Friday the 13th-
Pondering: clouds, thoughts, choices,
fears, frustrations, sadness, anger
But it's hard to stay upset, when so much beauty
surrounds me...

Live happy, live well, and make a difference somewhere, somehow, with someone or something as often as you can! 


  1. I agree with you. One more month is not going to hurt. There were some good things in those numbers. I would love to have your light chain ratio, and I am not taking any treatment currently. Side affects of treatment are not just a problem for living, but they can also lead to death. Quality of life is very important. Might be time for a second opinion. I am like you, horse time is NOT optional.

    Read your post faithfully, You are an amazing woman. Whatever you decide, all the best, and wishes for some happy trails in 2017.

    1. Thank you so much for Jan for your input and opinion! Your points are how I feel, and I have been wary of "aggressive" treatments. Not that Darza and Vel would be considered "aggressive" now, but I'm just whimpy about side effects and potential life threatening infusion reax and delayed reax. Thank you so much for appreciating my posts and nice to meet another "pony pal"! Perhaps all the "fly spray" contributed to us getting MM? Congrats on doing so well, and not being in treatment! Tell me more of your story please! Thank you for your comment Jan! :)

    2. Julie,
      I am not sure you should listen to my advice after reading the other comments. I am more a Gus (Lonesome Dove) type--"you ain't taking off my last leg.", ignore that if you haven't seen the series.
      Ten years MM (I was 49), but caught it late, I am sure I had MM for at least a couple of years before diagnosed. Severe kidney damage (did some dialysis) is what finally exposed the MM. I don't go to a doctor very quickly. Though to be honest, when I did go to GP and told them I was tired, the doctor told me I just needed to cut out the diet pop. UGH!
      Now when I look back on my labs, I had low hemoglobin for over four years before they caught on.
      I did nine months of vel/dex followed by auto. Six years no drugs. Kidney's recovered. After six years kappa's started moving up, when they hit 40's went straight to another auto.
      My specialist, who is great, offered maintenance after this auto two years ago, I declined, and I don't think she was surprised--she knows me well. So again, I am two years drug free, my kappa's are a tiny bit elevated, and so is my kappa/lamba ratio. Though I do run a hemoglobin of 14+.
      Fulfilled a lifeline dream and now have three horses (got them after my first transplant). Trail ride extensively. Been put on the ground a few bone density test..haven't broke a bone yet. Ironic, with MM isn't it? Have gone from one grandchild to eight, with the last a set of twin girls. (Doctor moved my second auto up and skipped the months of preauto chemo because I would not do transplant when the twins where due or during spring planting. It worked well -CR, I helped take care of those babies almost every day for three months. Precious times.)

      Every MM is different, every patient is different. So that is why my advice may be of no use-your MM is much more aggressive than mine. I seem to be able to have drug free periods. One can argue that I may have been better off with maintenance. I am fine if I was wrong. I have lived life exactly the way I want. Had a blast. Have NO other health issues.
      They won't put in my obit that "she fought a courageous battle with cancer." Nope, it will be, "she lived well." I am not scare of dying, I am scared of not living.
      I have no idea how I will face the tough decisions you have, but they are your decisions.
      I do know that you are one strong lady, behind you all the way no matter what course you and your family choose.
      I always suspected all the woodwork I refinished with those toxic chemicals might have not been so good.

    3. Wow, wow, wow Jan! I pale in comparison to your story. Thank you so much for sharing as you have. Truly, you have a huge story. I feel like such a whimp! And you ride! Wow... you are braver, and living life "better" than me. I am so happy to read about all your treatment success and life's milestones you've passed! 2 SCT's! wow! You are so much braver than me. I love your "rebel" attitude. Reminds me of me, where we put the brakes on treatment, etc for other more "important priorities"! Love your story Jan, and would love to know more, and all about your horses and riding adventures too. I don't think my decisions are any more difficult than yours, and I love your obit words. Same for me! Thank you so much for sharing and caring. Your story is very "blog-worthy"! Congrats on all your grandkids and treatment success! Please write to me at . Thank you Jan! xoxo

  2. I understand your fear, your fatigue, the struggle with side effects and your wish for things to be normal. I've been living with myeloma for nearly 13 years -- it's a physical and mental challenge. To me, it doesn't seem to make sense to delay the switch in treatment. Darzalex is reportedly a game changer in myeloma treatment, getting remarkable results in the patients who respond to the regimen. The medical team is with you to manage the infusion reactions. Of course it's scary! -- but it seems the first infusion is the most challenging and it gets better after that. You need to be strong and brave and move forward. What is scary to me is delaying the new line of treatment because of fear, especially if the delay allows your myeloma to establish an even stronger hold in your body. A month does matter. Who knows? Once your system adjusts to the new treatment, you might actually feel better and live longer. We fight so hard for life. Even if there is discomfort and you have to deal with side effects, it's better than no life at all. As one tough cancer patient said to me, it's better to be moving forward, even with pain, than getting fitted for a pine box! Hang in there and stay strong.

    1. Ugh, you are right Anonymous... and my brain agrees with you.. and I should take heed of your wisdom, as here you are 6 years ahead of me! Congrats on your 13 years surviving MM! That is truly impressive, and my hat is off to you! I appreciate all your points, and I have mulled over all that you mention... but I still come back to losing my carefree, naive bravery, and I just want to give Pomalyst a chance, one more month at the highest dose. I've only done 2 cycles so far, and my #s weren't all that horrible ;) You are right, and I deeply appreciate your honest, encouraging input. Please tell me more of your MM story and treatments. Again, congrats on 13 years!

    2. I sent you an email, hope it didn't end up in your spam folder. It's a gmail account starting with 197....

  3. Hey Julie,

    I too was dx'd 12/2009. This cancer is often described as heterogenous both within and without the patient. As individual as fingerprints!

    That being the unfortunate case for each os we have no way of extrapolating treatment success from one to another, or for that matter, treatment failures From one patient to another. We just don't know what may or may not work, withany real certainty, in any given person. :(

    I suggest that you seek a second opinion at a different insttution. Many well-known doctors will do 60 minute phone consultations if you would rather not drive into the "big city".

    Long and the short of it is: you need to take action as it appears from what you've written above that the dominant MM clones need to be hit with a new therapy!



    1. Ugh Steve, you are right. My brain agrees with you, but my fears over-ride what I "should" do, and I've lost my confident "I'll bully myeloma" attitude. Actually my Drs want to be more aggressive, it's me putting on the brakes. They want me to move forward with new treatments all the time, so I am very confident with the team I have. All the Drs consult on our cases, both locally and with my City of Hope SCT Drs. So I do feel very confident with my teams (consisting of over 6 Drs at each location!), and I'm very blessed to have excellent insurance that pays for any treatment- including all the new "cutting edge" options. My son has wanted me to seek other opinions, but I tell him the same :)
      Please tell me of your story and treatments since we share the Dec 2009 Dx! Congrats on your 7yrs beating up MM. Tell me your type of MM and treatments so far. Thank you so much for your honest input. I truly appreciate you reading my rants and posting your sincere thoughts! Thank you!

  4. Julie Julie Julie. Why is shoveling horse poop your thing? Remember last time you fell and left a mark on your face? I guess you were wearing some protection this time. I can't say anything about your medication plan as I'm not educated in that area at all. But, you as the patient need to feel comfortable with what is going to occur, the pro's/con's of side effects and if your body can handle a strong dose of anything right now or even later. The story of the windshield wiper's: I can see it but it's true what do you do when the rest of the world is driving so fast and of course no one would let you over. But at that specific time everything seemed to be building up inside and taking a toll. My dear friend...breath in and out. Frank's surgery is coming up (2/2 at UCLA)and I have had these days more often and I'm thinking to myself "what is happening?" I say "Let it go" of course the Walt Disney song from Frozen comes to mind. Well, take care my friend. Happy to read the post and get an update. - Theresa

    1. ahahaaa thanks for a good laugh Theresa! Yes horses are to me, as softball is to you. I can only imagine all the sports injuries you've sustained too. Yes, I fell into the horse poopy dumpster in the summer, but all's been good since then. Don't laugh, but scooping poop is basically my only form of exercise at this point, as my options to do things outside my house are quite limited now. We'll have to share our "war stories" when we finally meet up this year. Bet Frank will be glad to get his surgery over! It's always something, and this life never disappoints us with new challenges all the time. Mid life and the "golden years" sure aren't what we thought it would be, right? I think about you all the time dear friend, and thank you so much for continuing to follow my posts and rants. You are a true friend Theresa! Enjoy every day with your family, and I know Frank will do just great. I will look for your update on him too. No more drama, right?! Thank you! xoxo

  5. Julie, I don't know what to say. Can't make a recommendation. But I will say this: Don't be afraid of Velcade. I have been on Velcade sub-q for almost 3 years. 1 shot a week for 3 weeks with 1 week off. I have had no neuropathy. Of course, I could just be lucky. But Velcade sub-q has much less neuropathy issues than when they used to do it by IV. I get me shots in the stomach. Started out in my arm, but it left me sore and with a large red mark. Nobody sees the red mark on my belly (except hubby) and it doesn't hurt. I wish you the best with whatever decision you make. You are an amazingly strong woman to have survived this far! Keep it up!

    1. Hi Sheri! Thank you so much for commenting and sharing. Just what I needed to hear this week, as I will brave up, and go with Velcade this Thursday. Thank you for letting me know you've done so well on Velcade shots. I'm just so scared of new treatments and potential side effects. So glad your treatments are working for you, and thank you for your perfectly timed comment of support! :) xoxo

    2. That's what we are here and encouragement!

    3. Thank you Sheri! Hope all is good with you! :)


My Story... How my MM was diagnosed

October/November/December 2009...

Most of my life I was VERY presumptuous about being healthy, taking my (mostly) GOOD health for granted...
I was committed to annual check-ups for all of us, and so late October 2009, my daughter and I went for our annual and very routine physicals.

Surprise, surprise... my routine blood tests revealed extreme Anemia, significant White and Red Cell issues, low Platelets, and a variety of other CBC red flags! I was (stupidly) not worried when my GP doc left repeated phone messages to contact him, and when we did speak, I (stupidly) requested postponement of his referral appointment to the Hematology Dept until the end of the Fall academic term.

Arriving for my first appointment Dec 14, 2009, I was confronted with the check-in sign that read: "Hematology/Oncology"... What? Nooooo! not me... I must be in the WRONG place! And so my diagnosis journey began with vials and vials of blood drawn "stat", urgent Dr consultations, a surprise and painful Bone Marrow Biopsy, a full body Skeletal Scan, more blood tests stat, and then on 12.30.2009... THE revealing meeting... the "huh-what" moment ... the confirmation diagnosis that I, Julie, have CANCER!!!

Happy New Year to me, I just learned a new vocabulary word:
Multiple Myeloma!!! MM, Multiple Mye-what-loma!!!

January - June 2010

My medical metamorphosis began.
I read, and read, and read and researched and researched MM. I trusted my expert Oncology/Hematology team's plan and began my "New Normal" as a cancer patient.
My treatment plan was developed to include powerful Dexemthesone steroids paired with Revlimid chemotherapy, with the plan to be hospitalized for an Autologous Stem Cell Transplant July 2010.

I began living "one day at a time" like never before.
Jim was a wreck. Alissa and Scott were stunned; family and friends shocked.

Me... Cowgirl Up! I got back in the saddle and knew I was in for the ride of my life!
I did well on my initial pill-form Revlimid Chemo, "roid-rage" Dex Steroids and other supportive meds. I am forever deeply grateful and appreciative for all the love and support from everyone in my personal and professional life! I thank all of you for working along with me, and allowing me to continue to lead a semi "normal" life!
YOU have helped save my life!

My treatment trail ride forks to City of Hope hospital as I will saddle up beginning June 9, 2010 for a new rodeo called an Autologous Stem Cell Transplant!
Ye-Ha, let the adventure begin!

Chemical Warfare...

January 2010 - May 2010:
My initial chemo regimen:

Pill form Chemo= Revlimid (10mg capsules)
Pill form Dexamethasone Steroids (40 mg!) paired with Omeprazole
Mepron (looks like yellow finger paint) Anti-fungal, Anti-viral, etc for my very compromised immune system
B-12- to build those cells!
.81 Aspirin to prevent DVT, Revlimid complications
Allopurinol- keeping the kidneys healthy
Acyclovir- anti-Shingles, anti-viral

June 2010:
High dose IV Cytoxan chemo
Neupogen to build up stem cells for Apheresis, stem cell harvest, which was very successful, as City of Hope was able to collect 9.5 million of my own stem cells

July 2010 Hospitalization:
Two days of high dose Melphalan chemo
Then July 5, 2010 = my Autologous Stem Cell transplant infusion!

And you can read my whole story from that point forward in this blog!

What is multiple myeloma?

What is multiple myeloma?

Cancer starts when cells in the body begin to grow out of control. Cells in nearly any part of the body can become cancer, and can spread to other areas of the body. To learn more about how cancers start and spread, see What Is Cancer?

Multiple myeloma is a cancer formed by malignant plasma cells. Normal plasma cells are found in the bone marrow and are an important part of the immune system.

The immune system is made up of several types of cells that work together to fight infections and other diseases. Lymphocytes (lymph cells) are the main cell type of the immune system. The major types of lymphocytes are T cells and B cells.

When B cells respond to an infection, they mature and change into plasma cells. Plasma cells make the antibodies (also called immunoglobulins) that help the body attack and kill germs. Lymphocytes are in many areas of the body, such as lymph nodes, the bone marrow, the intestines, and the bloodstream. Plasma cells, however, are mainly found in the bone marrow. Bone marrow is the soft tissue inside some hollow bones. In addition to plasma cells, normal bone marrow has cells that make the different normal blood cells.

When plasma cells become cancerous and grow out of control, they can produce a tumor called a plasmacytoma. These tumors generally develop in a bone, but they are also rarely found in other tissues. If someone has only a single plasma cell tumor, the disease is called an isolated (or solitary) plasmacytoma. If someone has more than one plasmacytoma, they have multiple myeloma.

Multiple myeloma is characterized by several features, including:

Low blood counts

In multiple myeloma, the overgrowth of plasma cells in the bone marrow can crowd out normal blood-forming cells, leading to low blood counts. This can cause anemia – a shortage of red blood cells. People with anemia become pale, weak, and fatigued. Multiple myeloma can also cause the level of platelets in the blood to become low (called thrombocytopenia). This can lead to increased bleeding and bruising. Another condition that can develop is leukopenia – a shortage of normal white blood cells. This can lead to problems fighting infections.

Bone and calcium problems

Myeloma cells also interfere with cells that help keep the bones strong. Bones are constantly being remade to keep them strong. Two major kinds of bone cells normally work together to keep bones healthy and strong. The cells that lay down new bone are called osteoblasts. The cells that break down old bone are called osteoclasts. Myeloma cells make a substance that tells the osteoclasts to speed up dissolving the bone. Since the osteoblasts do not get a signal to put down new bone, old bone is broken down without new bone to replace it. This makes the bones weak and they break easily. Fractured bones are a major problem in people with myeloma. This increase in bone break-down can also raise calcium levels in the blood. (Problems caused by high calcium levels are discussed in the section “How is multiple myeloma diagnosed?”)


Abnormal plasma cells do not protect the body from infections. As mentioned before, normal plasma cells produce antibodies that attack germs. For example, if you developed pneumonia, normal plasma cells would produce antibodies aimed at the specific bacteria that were causing the illness. These antibodies help the body attack and kill the bacteria. In multiple myeloma, the myeloma cells crowd out the normal plasma cells, so that antibodies to fight the infection can’t be made. The antibody made by the myeloma cells does not help fight infections. That’s because the myeloma cells are just many copies of the same plasma cell – all making copies of the same exact (or monoclonal) antibody.

Kidney problems

The antibody made by myeloma cells can harm the kidneys. This can lead to kidney damage and even kidney failure.