October/November/December 2009...
Most of my life I was VERY presumptuous about being healthy, taking my (mostly) GOOD health for granted...
I was committed to annual check-ups for all of us, and so late October 2009, my daughter and I went for our annual and very routine physicals.
Surprise, surprise... my routine blood tests revealed extreme Anemia, significant White and Red Cell issues, low Platelets, and a variety of other CBC red flags! I was (stupidly) not worried when my GP doc left repeated phone messages to contact him, and when we did speak, I (stupidly) requested postponement of his referral appointment to the Hematology Dept until the end of the Fall academic term.
Arriving for my first appointment Dec 14, 2009, I was confronted with the check-in sign that read: "Hematology/Oncology"... What? Nooooo! not me... I must be in the WRONG place! And so my diagnosis journey began with vials and vials of blood drawn "stat", urgent Dr consultations, a surprise and painful Bone Marrow Biopsy, a full body Skeletal Scan, more blood tests stat, and then on 12.30.2009... THE revealing meeting... the "huh-what" moment ... the confirmation diagnosis that I, Julie, have CANCER!!!
Happy New Year to me, I just learned a new vocabulary word:
Multiple Myeloma!!! MM, Multiple Mye-what-loma!!!
January - June 2010
My medical metamorphosis began.
I read, and read, and read and researched and researched MM. I trusted my expert Oncology/Hematology team's plan and began my "New Normal" as a cancer patient.
My treatment plan was developed to include powerful Dexemthesone steroids paired with Revlimid chemotherapy, with the plan to be hospitalized for an Autologous Stem Cell Transplant July 2010.
I began living "one day at a time" like never before.
Jim was a wreck. Alissa and Scott were stunned; family and friends shocked.
Me... Cowgirl Up! I got back in the saddle and knew I was in for the ride of my life!
I did well on my initial pill-form Revlimid Chemo, "roid-rage" Dex Steroids and other supportive meds. I am forever deeply grateful and appreciative for all the love and support from everyone in my personal and professional life! I thank all of you for working along with me, and allowing me to continue to lead a semi "normal" life!
YOU have helped save my life!
My treatment trail ride forks to City of Hope hospital as I will saddle up beginning June 9, 2010 for a new rodeo called an Autologous Stem Cell Transplant!
Ye-Ha, let the adventure begin!
Hi Julie! Thinking about you always and check your blog often for updates. I don't have facebook anymore but am glad I can continue to get updates here. Miss you and I'm always hoping and praying for positive updates. You are amazing. Hope to see you all soon.
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Thank you so much for staying in touch Shannon. My goal is still to get together with all of us asap! Say HI to Mom and Jenn, and G-ma, etc. Maybe a drive by here, or on a nice day, an outside chat. I'll miss all your adorable posts on FB xoxo
DeleteHi Julie so happy to hear you had a good day you deserve Amazing so happy to see your post today.
ReplyDeleteHi Pattie, so sorry I never emailed you back. Things just keep revving up for me, and I only get a few "good" hours, days on my steroid days, but maybe I can do that later tonight or tomorrow. Hope all is ok with you and your hubby. Feel free to email me anytime, as I can for sure read, even if I don't the the molecules to reply. Hoping 2021 is better for both our families! xoxo
DeleteWhat a beautiful couple! I wish them every happiness in the years to come. I hope you can update your post soon. Hugs and strength to you!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Ellen. Yes, it was quite the challenge for me to be able to do this, but thank the crazy amazing powers of STEROIDS to give me fake energy and a tiny bit of "me" back. Was a lovely day! Thank you for caring as you do xoxo
DeleteSo glad you got to be part of this very special moment for Scott and his wife. These are the treasures in life. Love you, Julie.
ReplyDeleteHi CB, thanks for checking in and enjoying this post. Not sure if you're still on FB, have more pics there. Thank you for caring as you do, and yes I was very lucky STEROIDS let me enjoy the beautiful day. xoxo
DeleteSo very thankful you could make it to this beautiful ceremony!!! Where is your selfie?♥️
ReplyDeleteThank you Linda! So funny, as so many are asking me that, but I was careful to not be the "meddling mom" . There was a professional photographer there too, so I was in those... coming soon.. Thank you so much for all your caring and answering all my questions about Ernie's journey... xoxo
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